April 2025 – Andy Wells The “Chad” Trap: How Overcompensating Masculinity Sabotaged My Dating Success April 26, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) Sex Dating
How I Beat Depression Learned to be an Optimist (My Story) Loser’s mindset and all of that I’ve long-since moved past it and forgiven him, but man… as a teenager and in most of my 20’s it absolutely ate away at my soul Feeling like your father doesn’t give a shit about you is rough, and I empathise with everyone who went through something similar
Why spending $200 on this one thing is the best investment you’ll ever . . . Most guys don’t hesitate to blow $200 on: a night out they barely remember the next day drinks to try to numb the pain of a mediocre life Uber rides to nowhere important porn subscriptions they’ll just regret video games they’ll barely play takeaway food that’ll just make them gain weight new shoes they don’t need But spending $200 on their future? On their goals? On becoming a man
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Why I Care So Damn Much (And Why That Matters For You) Why I Care So Damn Much (And Why That Matters For You) November 18, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) People say to me sometimes: “Andy, you care too much Why do you pour so much into your coaching calls and your youtube vids?” Because I remember being the guy who had no one No guidance, no roadmap, no support
Out Magazines 100 Greatest, Gayest Albums of All Time Morrissey and The Smiths show up on Out Magazine's "100 Greatest, Gayest Albums of All Time" The magazine polled more than 100 actors, comedians, musicians, writers and others Number 1 is David Bowie's "The Rise and Fall of Ziggy Stardust and the Spiders from Mars " 100-51
When I had Unrealistic Standards, I Didn’t Get Laid [Storytime with . . . Exactly like Good Looking Loser did in his early 20’s I’m a fucking retard for repeating the same pattern, given I’d already read all his articles about lowering your standards Guess we have to walk our own path make our own mistakes But now I want to get laid
Imposter Syndrome – Andy Wells - Kill Your Inner Loser All of my mates have told me they have imposter syndrome while starting a new venture Most of my coaching clients tell me the same thing; “I don’t deserve to be here ” My girlfriend has felt like an imposter while working on every single one of her goals – even with stuff she’s clearly talented at It’s fucking normal to feel imposter syndrome when you start a new goal
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